Christian friend of mine who had come from overseas spoke at our bible
study here in Idaho. This person told the class that when they had
moved to England for some undergraduate work, a neighbor told them, "Do
not bring your religion into my home." They honored the man's request.
During the next two years, however, they became eventual friends with
their neighbor. It was at that time that he asked them, "Can you please
tell us about your
Christian God?" The man and his family were converted to Christ.|
Most Christians believe that they need to get out in the streets and pound the pavement and rattle doors to spread the Good News. It's a noble idea but mostly ineffective. Why? Here's my short list:
If you want to convert someone to Christ, get to know them. Show some concern for them. A card at Christmas, a few conversations about who you are and who they are. You get the idea. The last thing they want is for someone to come up on them while they're putting groceries in the car and start preaching. In my 60-odd years, I've never known anyone to be converted by a door-knocker. Does that mean it never happens? Could be, but I've never known anyone who came to Christ because of a stranger's appeal to the faith. Not unless they were in dire straits due to addiction, imprisonment, etc.
I've heard so-called Christians say, "I preached the gospel to them; if they go to hell, it's their fault." Such a Pontius Pilate attitude is a poor reflection on Christianity. At times, even Jesus fed the thousands—cared for them—before He preached to them. At the same time, those living in the times of Christ were universally hungry for the Gospel. In our overfed, overweight, and amoral American culture, you have to befriend folks to be an effective evangelist.
And that, my friend can be a long, long effort.